Note: This article is edited from May 2005. It is
still applicable to today. Not much has changed.
What do we celebrate on Mother’s Day? Is it the
efforts of liberal moms that threaten to destroy the family unit? Is it
the abortion rights attitude currently prevalent in so many of today’s
moms, or what about the same sex marriages that cradle the formative
years of adopted children that are growing up in gay households? Just
what is it that is so great about mothers that we should celebrate with
a day of remembrance?
Now-a-days many moms are forced to work full time
jobs to make ends meet. Materialism has driven the family into debt,
frustration and marital bankruptcy. The great American dream, to have it
all, has swept across the world like a mighty rushing wind, leaving in
its wake an army of latch key kids, over worked parents and depression.
The stay at home mom has become another word for
lazy or an unproductive female that cannot find her way in modern
society. The idea of motherhood has given way to the career woman. It’s
no longer a definitive of one who shapes the minds and hearts of the
next generation. It almost seems like “Dr Phil”, “Nanny 911” and
other T.V. programs have become our main source of help in troubled
times.
Think not that all of the above does not apply to
the Christian community. The divorce rate is the same among Christians
as non-Christians. The “Latch Key Kid” dilemma is as prevalent as
ever among Christian families. Liberal thinking as to abortion, sex
before marriage and gay rights are more apparent among Christian youth
than ever before. We have fallen into the main stream of society’s
filth and degradation. What does that say about our moms and their God
given mandate to “Train up a child” in the ways of the Lord? Just
what are we celebrating?
By the way, I know that it takes two to tango and
today’s world is not totally the result of mom’s immorality. I just
cannot help but wonder what life would be like if all Christian moms
were more Godly. When I speak of Christian Moms, I refer to all
denominations, which many are extremely liberal.
I just turned sixty three (March 29th). I can
easily compare today’s world with when I was a young adult. I am sure
there are many of you that are of my generation can also look back and
see a gentler society, a more loving home environment, a stronger family
unit and most of all more of a Godlier attitude among moms. Those times
were a lot different than the times in which we now live.
Looking back and forth in my own life at the times
in which I lived and now continue, I cannot but help notice a distinct
movement deeper into Biblical prophecy and the coming of the end of the
age. It’s as though the end of the world has fallen upon us. Could we
be the last generation before the coming of Christ?
The 1 st century Christians believed that their
world would end in their lifetime. However, they resisted the sins of
their society. They actually fought to maintain moral purity and
Godliness. Moms were serious about raising their children in the light
of God’s Holy Word. It was no joke or passing thought. How do I know
this? I know this because there is so much teaching in the bible about
family and raising Godly children. It is obvious, to me anyway, that it
was of great concern and importance. The Apostles seemed to know that
the key to a prosperous family life was a strong Christian foundation.
Detailed instruction was given to various churches on the roles of
husbands, wives, and children in a Christian home. Ephesians, chapter
five, is a good example.
I believe that we should celebrate Mother’s Day
in spite of the moral decay of our society; for it is in respect for all
that our moms did over the years on our behalf and in some cases are
still doing. It is not a celebration of a day but rather a person. We
honor our moms for their dedication and love for us and for their help
in helping us to find our way in life. Even moms who have failed us
still should be recognized because they did what they could. Forgiving
them and telling them of our unconditional love, regardless of the past,
sets us free from a victim mentality and allows Christ to love them
through us.
Although my generation failed in its efforts to
sustain and/or improve a moral society where the church was a focal
point in life, there seems to be a renewal in the things of God. Even
though my generation left its love for God to follow after the
immorality of the day, those who had abortions, experimented with drugs,
fell to the “free love” and the sexual revolution, now in these last
days, are coming back to a personal relationship with the Lord who died
for them. We, who were blind, can now see.
Our new found revelation is the dynamic that will
lead our grand children into a saving knowledge of Christ and a moral
reality that will keep them free from the sorrows and shame that we live
with every day.
The modern Christian mom faces an onslaught of
heathenism, false religions, and materialism that is really not much
different than in ages past. It will take faith and determination and
obedience to the Word of God, just like it has always taken, for moms to
transform their families into what is pleasing to God and beneficial to
society. We celebrate this kind of woman, who is Godly, dedicated to the
task, enduring and faithful in all her ways.